tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post111339366897793361..comments2023-10-20T09:43:39.318-04:00Comments on Frumpter: Gates to be Opened.Zoe Strickmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07940789852735669214noreply@blogger.comBlogger1125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-1113410572082352282005-04-13T12:42:00.000-04:002005-04-13T12:42:00.000-04:00Hey there,Yes, I wasn't going to mention it until ...Hey there,<BR/><BR/>Yes, I wasn't going to mention it until you tourself brought it up, but the post about your father was irrationally cold. As for the last sentence of this post: I fear to a degree that you are TOO sanctimonious and tend to expect everyone to life by your own standards (which from the common thread throughout a majority of your posts makes you downright miserable), standards which you are in no position to hold as greater than any other. Considering that you have not been following/trying to adhere to these standards for a lengthy period yourself, you need to think about whether you are following them for the "right reasons" (true devotion to something larger than yourself) or for the "wrong" ones (simply wanting to be in an "exclusive club" of sorts); if the former case is true, then you would not be NEARLY as miserable or short-sighted (as in fixated only on finishing school = making money as well as on instantly needing a wife submissive to your desires). I strongly suspect there is something else going on in your head that you are either trying to ignore or consciously deny but that needs to be seriously addressed if you are going to be happy at all. Swallow your pride rather than let your pride lead you into an increasingly sanctimonious state, and you may find the ability to address underlying problems. It will also allow you to be able to espouse your opinions critical of others if you admit and take care of YOUR problems first.Kileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05798217022980718278noreply@blogger.com