tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post27623509202810523..comments2023-10-20T09:43:39.318-04:00Comments on Frumpter: Afraid Hashem is firing a shot across the bow.Zoe Strickmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07940789852735669214noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-659441671253264612011-07-21T22:28:36.150-04:002011-07-21T22:28:36.150-04:00Interesting point regarding prayer. I have a lot ...Interesting point regarding prayer. I have a lot to say to G-d; I talk to Him all day long. Every step is with him in mind, whether I am obeying His will or breaking it in His full view. Metaphorically seeing Him as a father, I wish I was a better son.Zoe Strickmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07940789852735669214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-85090298434781249392011-07-19T23:51:00.762-04:002011-07-19T23:51:00.762-04:00Personally I do not believe God will punish you fo...Personally I do not believe God will punish you for not saying your prayers. If you don't enjoy saying them which is what you say, how about saying them in your first language, thanking God for all of your daily gifts. This makes prayer meaningful for you, thus bringing you closer to God.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-39948635770877981302011-07-19T19:03:45.556-04:002011-07-19T19:03:45.556-04:00I am almost speechless. You are always reading in...I am almost speechless. You are always reading into everything. just live a good life...the best you can today and the same for tomorrow and the next day. I agree with the first comment regarding creating so many kids! I cannot see how having so many kids can possibly be helpful to your already walking on eggshells relationship. Take a break of having babies and work on the wife and children you already have. There are only so many hours in a day. Kids need your time. It does not even sound like your wife treasures or enjoys the time she has with the kids. correct me if I am wrong.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-50112957283095235162011-07-19T13:48:57.424-04:002011-07-19T13:48:57.424-04:00He doesn't have a choice about adding to the b...He doesn't have a choice about adding to the brood; he's Chabad.<br /><br />My personal take on it is that it's a message from Hashem that you need to save as much as you possible can-- a year or more of salary (you're current average salary, not document review) if at all possible. Cut the spending sprees... live like you were making say double the document review salary and then save the rest. You're going to need a larger place as your children grow. They're going to eventually have dayschool tuitions. Eventually they're going to have bar mitzvahs and weddings.<br /><br />Save. Don't waste what Hashem is giving you.Ahuvahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12313911386166259760noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-89091199812350409692011-07-18T21:56:49.319-04:002011-07-18T21:56:49.319-04:00Seriously, each and every one of us are beyond rep...Seriously, each and every one of us are beyond replaceable in our respective niches anymore; there's <i>MANY</i> doing what you do now (yes I am more than well aware of it), and you need to ride the tide and save while you can, being always willing to twist and bend to what is needed and lucrative as time goes by. I am actually a bit concerned that you keep adding to the brood without necessarily thinking about what will happen when hit a downturn, but it's up to you and your wife to decide if being wise to all of mankind and choosing to regulate your births, rather than contribute to poverty-ridden overpopulation, is what you want to do. Please be careful.Kileyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05798217022980718278noreply@blogger.com