tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post3030942417598328659..comments2023-10-20T09:43:39.318-04:00Comments on Frumpter: Selfish, Selfish, SELFISH!Zoe Strickmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07940789852735669214noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-85750457222314307792011-09-26T22:51:14.671-04:002011-09-26T22:51:14.671-04:00Maybe you should haven't had so many kids so q...Maybe you should haven't had so many kids so quickly if you can't handle the stress and requirements of them. As religious as you claim to be, this all is disgusting.<br /><br />Her grandmother is DYING. You have FOUR KIDS. And you are bitching she isn't playing admin assistant?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-56181288161785858762010-10-10T01:43:50.394-04:002010-10-10T01:43:50.394-04:00Been there, done that re: national job search. I&...Been there, done that re: national job search. I'm staying local this time around. Yes, we'll get counseling.Zoe Strickmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07940789852735669214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-23428236297885976392010-10-08T20:39:12.294-04:002010-10-08T20:39:12.294-04:00Zoe, you're seriously in need of broadening yo...Zoe, you're seriously in need of broadening your job search...I'm talking nationally like I had to.Rae Macklynhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17964977165414679912noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-1271559782835043212010-10-07T00:51:33.692-04:002010-10-07T00:51:33.692-04:00Zoe,
It is sadly the same story every entry. YOU...Zoe,<br /><br />It is sadly the same story every entry. YOU GUYS REALLY SHOULD GET COUNSELING or DIVORCE! Those are your ONLY options if you love your children.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-34348456992754499362010-10-06T14:05:22.770-04:002010-10-06T14:05:22.770-04:00Zoe, I've been following your blog for a bit. ...Zoe, I've been following your blog for a bit. I have to say that if you guys don't get into couples counselling soon, then your only other course of action is to separate. This type of marriage is so bad for your children. You guys both need to put your egos and personal wants and needs aside and think about what is best for your children.Mordechainoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-53193072926225007302010-10-06T00:07:48.953-04:002010-10-06T00:07:48.953-04:00Okay... well... If you thought that was bad, I mad...Okay... well... If you thought that was bad, I made it 100x worse in my texts which followed those.Zoe Strickmanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07940789852735669214noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10890885.post-23379972805175027412010-10-05T21:28:52.480-04:002010-10-05T21:28:52.480-04:00"I never know why you can achieve goals for y..."I never know why you can achieve goals for you but you can never help achieve goals for us"<br /> <br />Ummm, Zoe, that WAS rude. And mean. She's visiting a dying grandmother-- be happy for her.<br /><br />" I treat her well and give her everything she needs -- financially, spiritually, emotionally, and physically."<br /> <br />How can you say that you're giving her everything she needs financially when you can't pay the rent this month and are looking for her to save you from what you view as a dead-end job? Who are you trying to kid? And as for giving her everything emotionally-- Is immediately putting a damper on things by telling her she never does anything to help you giving her everything she needs emotionally?<br /><br />She may be a terrible wife, but at least be honest with yourself about what you're doing for your part.<br /> <br />We all get it by now, you two aren't a team. You're not well suited and don't particularly like each other.<br /> <br />She doesn't want to help... and she's going to want to help even less if you insist on trying to make her feel bad because her parents are willing to send her a plane ticket. G-d willing her parents will be willing to help when you two can't make ends meet financially... which is going to happen fairly quickly trying to raise a large family in NYC on <50K/year.Ahuvahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12313911386166259760noreply@blogger.com